Hi, it’s Daniella! My brother Enzo and I are family photographers on beautiful Oahu, Hawaii. We love taking pictures of families in Waikiki, Ko’Olina and the North Shore of Oahu (and a few other secret spots). We’ve photographed over 500 families in the last 7 years and love all of the families we have met and become friends with!
Family photo sessions are a wonderful way to capture moments that you’ll treasure for years to come. However, the thought of getting your kids ready for one can feel a little overwhelming. Don’t worry—with a bit of preparation, your session can be a smooth, enjoyable, and even fun experience for everyone! Here are some tips to help set you up for success:
1. Ensure They Get Enough Sleep
A good night’s sleep is key to happy, cooperative kids. The night before your session, stick to your regular bedtime routine to help them feel rested and ready. A well-rested child is more likely to be cheerful and engaged during the session, which will make everything run more smoothly.
2. Choose Comfortable, Yet Stylish Outfits
When planning what your kids will wear, aim for outfits that strike a balance between comfort and style. Avoid clothing with scratchy fabrics, tight fits, or tags that might irritate them. Soft, breathable materials in colors that complement your family’s look work best. Bonus tip: have them try on the outfits ahead of time to ensure there are no last-minute surprises. If you are having trouble deciding on what to wear for your family go here to see our blog post about picking your family’s outfits.
3. Feed Them Beforehand
Hungry kids are often cranky kids, so make sure they have a satisfying meal or snack before the session. Keep the snacks healthy and non-messy to avoid spills or stains. Bringing along a favorite non-messy snack can also be helpful for little breaks during the shoot.
4. Arrive Early to Avoid Stress
Rushing to the session can leave everyone feeling frazzled. Plan to arrive early so you have time to settle in and relax. Kids can sense stress, and if you’re calm and unhurried, they’ll likely feel the same way.
5. Don’t Stress About Controlling Their Behavior
Kids are kids, and sometimes they have their own ideas about how things should go—and that’s okay! It’s not your job to control every action or ensure they behave perfectly. As your photographers, we’re experienced in working with kids and know how to handle unexpected moments. We’ll go with the flow, turning those little quirks into endearing memories.
6. Focus on Making It Fun
Instead of aiming for perfection, think of your session as a memory-making activity. We’ll play games, tell jokes, and create an environment where everyone can relax and enjoy themselves. When kids see the session as fun, they’re more likely to cooperate and show their natural personalities—and that’s what makes for the best photos.
Final Thoughts
Preparing your kids for a family photo session doesn’t have to be a stressful experience. By focusing on rest, comfort, and fun, you can set the stage for a session that not only results in beautiful images but also creates lasting memories. Remember, the little imperfections often turn into the most cherished moments. Let’s capture the real, joyful essence of your family together!
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